According to the cognitive psychology and the study on adult attachment; basically known that attachment style that develop in childhood stay with us for a lifetime. They influence our feeling of security, the personal meaning given our experience, and the ability to develop and maintain closeness with others. We all have perceptions and behaviors across the continuum of attachment style; however we tend to adopt one primary style. In a romantic relationship, secure adult find it relativity easy to get close to. These type of person tend to maintain a secure and healthy relationship with their partners. dismissing adult in a affective relationship are more comfortable being self-reliant, it means they don't seek or accept support from their partners; in these type of relationship statistical don't success like the one of the secure adult, and always focused it self in fiscal attraction. Adult with preoccupied attachment are so sure that they won't be love and supported that they are excessively vigilant, demanding reassurance, jealous, and end-up scaring others away. And the last one is unresolved adult; these adults are afraid of closeness. They view themselves as detective and unworthy of love and are not capable of intimate, trusting and mature romantic relationship. These person are selfish, controlling, and refuse to take personal responsibility for their action.
So this is a test for my reader form this post which type of attachment you think you have, or you partner have.
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